Suggested Reading: Matthew 12:30-37; Proverbs 15:1-2
In our conversation, people hear what we “say.” They hear words we use, and our tone of voice when speaking. But God hears what we are “thinking” when we’re speaking.
In Luke 6:45, Jesus explained it’s the heart (mind) that first produces evil. The mouth only gushes forth what has already been placed in the heart. In Matthew 15:19, Jesus said that out of the heart, springs the evil deeds that people do. Our heart then, is the source of our speech and actions.
In Hebrews 4:12, the writer says that the Word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.
How many times do we say “I didn’t mean to say or do that?” But if we are really honest with ourselves, deep down inside, maybe even in our sub-conscious mind, something made that off color or rude comment come out. Was that apology you offered genuinely sincere, or was it just words to make you feel better, and to pacify someone? Was that “cute” remark you made, to lift up someone, or to cut them down? God knows doesn’t He?
We are held accountable for what we say, AND what we mean, whether we say it or not.
When you pray, ask God to make you listen to your conversation and be aware of what He and others hear you say.